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| New York Graffiti on Rock on the Shore of the Hudson, 2014 |
What makes a good year? Can anything we
do influence the year to come, apart from what we actually do in that
year? I've heard about everything from the colour of your underwear
deciding your future success to what you eat, whether its 12 grapes,
lentils or hitting a loaf of bread against the walls or what
old furniture you throw out your window.
There is an abundance of traditions
around the world which focus on what you wear, eat and do and are all
about trying to prevent or ward off the negative and promote and
welcome the positive. Not a bad idea, how it's executed isn't always
easy to understand but there is nothing wrong with a new start.
What can we do?
Wear the right clothes (more
specifically – the correct colour underwear):
- S. America – Red for Love, Gold for
prosperity ***/++
- Columbia – Yellow for Happiness and
peace***
- Puerto Rico – White for fertility and
health***
Eat (or don't eat) the right food:
- China: Eat long noodles for
longevity/long-life*
- Greece/Philippines: Eat round food like
donuts in Greece and 13 round fruit for luck in Philippines ++/*
- Turkey: Eat Pomegranate for health and
prosperity as it looks like a heart*
- Italy/Chile: Eat lentils as symbols of
abundance and coins*/***
- Spain, South America & Mexico: Eat
12 grapes with a wish for each month of the year **
- Germany, Poland & Scandinavia: Eat
herring as its an abundant fish and look like silver*
- Southern USA: Eat Black Eye Peas as look like
pennies and corn bread which looks like gold*/++
- Russia: Write your wishes for the new
year, burn them and put ashes in the champagne you drink at midnight.
**/+
- Scotland: Have the person who takes the
'first foot' inside your door bring you luck with such items as coal,
bread, a coin and good wishes. **/++
- Ireland: Bang bread against the walls
and doors of the house to ward off evil (and check the bread is
baked) ***/+/++
- Any where with green cash – eat
greens for obvious reasons*/++
Do the right thing (or something):
- S. Africa: Throw your old furniture
our a window. ***
- Columbia/Ecuador: If you want to travel - run round
your house with suitcases **/++
- Denmark: Jump off a chair for good luck
**
- Philippines: Jump up if you are a child
and want to grow taller ++
- Germany: Rub ash on your forehead for
good luck **
- Scotland: Swing fireballs in the air
+++
- Russia: New Year's Tree and fireworks
celebrate the arrival of Ded Moroz and granddaughter who bring
presents for children on New Years Day ***
- Ecuador: Burn a scarecrow to get rid of
the negativity of the previous year ***
- Iran: Bang pots and pans at
midnight in the street ++
- Japan: Watch the sunrise from atop a
mountain to welcome the light of the new year +++
- Bahamas: New Year Day parade to welcome
the New Year
The last three traditions I mention, I am most familiar with:
- Anywhere that uses fireworks and
crackers, this is to to ward off/scare the negative and darkness and
light the future ++
- US, UK and other areas: Kiss
the person at midnight who you want to share the good fortune of the
year with. **
- Writing New Year's resolutions (see below).
| Rank |
Top 10 New Years resolutions for 2014 |
1
|
Lose Weight |
2
|
Getting Organized |
3
|
Spend Less, Save More |
4
|
Enjoy Life to the Fullest |
5
|
Staying Fit and Healthy |
6
|
Learn Something Exciting |
7
|
Quit Smoking |
8
|
Help Others in Their Dreams |
9
|
Fall in Love |
10
|
Spend More Time with Family |
Source: University of Scranton. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 2014
Whatever way you chose to celebrate the new year, whenever your new year is, there is nothing wrong with new beginnings, change, new things...and doing things that seem strange or making resolutions you never keep. Its doing something.
'I hope that in this year
to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making
mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things,
learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your
world. You're doing things you've never done before, and more
importantly, you're Doing Something. So that's my wish for you,
and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make New Mistakes. Make
glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody's ever made before. Don't freeze, don't stop, don't worry
that it isn't good enough, or it isn't perfect, whatever it is: art,
or love, or work or family or life. Whatever it is you're
scared of doing, Do it. Make your mistakes, next
year and forever'
I am looking forward, as Gaiman (2012) advocates, to making more mistakes this year and 'making new things, trying new things,
learning, living, pushing [myself], changing [myself], changing [my]
world'.
Sources of New Year Traditions:
